Of course this true as long as there are no children involved in the relationship.
Elena, DoctorWhen we are in love, we live in a very special world. That is why the old saying, “Love is blind” is such an accurate statement. Once we are the road to developing a “family life” our vision usually returns rather quickly.
How quickly ? It depends …
But in the case of the couple above, it took only 6 months.
The second categories of letters that I constantly receive are about money matters.
One Italian gentleman sent me a letter in which he wrote that he is a “very young looking” 60 year old, ( of course.. what else? )
It happened that he met and fell in love with a 21 year old Russian girl. The romance was at it’s peak when she asked him to buy her an apartment in Russia for $60 000!!!
Actually, this guy was financially, very well set, so he wrote in his letter that he could make this gift to his Russian beauty EASILY, but…..….he wasn’t sure that he should……. He thought that she asked too much and asked my opinion about this situation, because he was afraid to lose her.
Ok, lets take a look at this Russian beauty.
Some would call her a scammer….. Not me!
I would call her heartless, and a selfish girl with $$$$ signs in her eyes. The kind of young woman that you meet, often, nowadays in many different countries. I remember how, about 2 years ago, one young girl from the US , sold her virginity on eBay and that a guy from Canada bought it for about $30 000.
With that situation firmly planted in your mind, let’s talk about her Russian “counter-part”
Was this young Russian girl a “scammer?” I don’t think so. She didn’t lie to her Italian sweetheart and she didn’t try to trap him into anything. She just told him honestly and straight forwardly what she wanted .
I guess that she just figured out that a 40 years age difference could be counted in a money equivalency, the same as American girl figured out how much her virginity was worth.
In the case of the Russian girl, $1500 for each year of an age difference….…look like a bargain! : )
But seriously, this guy is very lucky. At least, she was honest enough to show him her financial appetite before there was a marriage. He finally began to understand how it is feels to have a relationship with a woman 40 years his junior!.
So, what was my advice to this guy?
Quit looking for a ““child/wife”, ” and begin looking for a woman .